WISDOM IS HER Proverbs 4:5

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23 Apr




                                                                                         PROVERBS 4:5




This book is dedicated to God almighty, the fountain of wisdom, the greater of the greatest, the alpha and the omega, and the deeper of the deepest and the higher of the highest.

Every creation of God is wrapped with HER.



Wisdom is HER Proverbs 4.5 is a lingual of word intending to add value to everyone who desires HER.

The purpose of this book is to contribute to humanity and span their infusion of her.


Dated 22nd April 2018 Sunday 3rd service about 10.33 am, went Pastor was reading on the CALL TO WORSHIP proverbs 4.5, she jumps into me, immediately I began to write and for every divine project God is out to transfigure and impact someone.      



I thank the almighty God for providing me with all that I require to make this work a success.

My esteem gratitude goes to my father in the Lord through his unction and teaching.


He is a visionary and exemplary leader, our Daddy Bishop David Oyedepo and gentleman, Man with the epitome of humility Bishop Abioye, gorgeous mama, Mama Faith

Oyedepo, my mother who through Her I came into this world, Damsel a resilient, my mother, Madam Grace Thomas. 

To my brothers,  sisters, faithful and unfaithful friend, and my Facebook fan. 

I salute you all. Through you, wisdom has birthed in me.


Every creation of God is wrapped with HER.

Her is a root to every outstanding star, show me a fellow who has bag stardom, and I will tell you a person who incubated with HER.

Wisdom is a platform in which every foundation stand psalm 11.3.The vast empire’s organization, government family, marriage church, and relationship are the products of HER. Every lover of God’s word is a custodian of her 

Joshua1 1:8,

This book of the law shall not depart out of my mouth, but thou shall meditate therein day and night that thou shalt make thy way prosperous and then thou shalt have success.

Joshua choose to caress her, and she gives him success   provide 4.6

In her ways is prosperity, she never struggles, you argue with her you have good understanding and excellent life (Proverbs 2.6) KJV

In her, she causes down trodden to become high flyers Proverbs 4.8 KJV

You take her seriously in the morning, and she will produce the benefit of the day.

When you are genuinely in love with her, she gives you strength and good health Roman8.37 KJV.


Meeting HER was fate becoming her friends was choice, falling in love with her was beyond my control.

Experiencing the best of her is finding yourself in a difficult situation that demands her rescue.


Finding her pleasant is not how many days and months you are with her but the way you applied her.

Cuddle her at the right hour, and she will give sweet sleep.


 At this moment I urge you to use Wisdom is HER with a sense of dedication and commitment

Put the word to practice every truth encounter will produce a result.


Remember, knowledge not applied is a waste.

Stay bless and fasten your seat belt as we explore into the world of Wisdom is her.

Emmanuel Thomas



                                                                         CHAPTER ONE  

                                                                                        Wisdom for Marriage

                                                                          CHAPTER TWO

                                                                                           Wisdom for Business

                                                                        CHAPTER THREE

                                                                                         Wisdom for Good Health


                                                              CHAPTER ONE


                                                               What is Marriage?



arriage is God's international institutions that are instituted by God for the wellbeing of Man and the actualization of God's plan and purpose for the welfare of humanity.

The very first man that actualizes Gods purpose and plan was a man called ADAM.

Adam was man incubated with the wisdom and the nature of God. Immediately his creation, God gave him a job and wisdom to names the entire living creature.

Marriage is the beginning of   family and is a lifelong commitment.

It also provides an opportunity to grow in selflessness as you serve your wife and children.

Marriage is more than a physical union; it mirrors the one between GOD and his church




Based on these objects, the Christian marriage as a contract between a man and a woman usually intended to be binding for life, for sexual union, mutual companionship, and the establishment of a family.

The three objects of Christian marriage are Procreation

Escape from fornication (sex relations without marriage); Mutual help and comfort.


Pay off your credit cards.

Take off ten pounds or accept where you are without any more complaints.

Eat dinner together as a family for seven days in a row.

Take your wife on a dialogue date (no movie, guys).

Read your kids a classic book (Twain’s a good start).

Memorize the Twenty-third Psalm as a family.

Hug each family member for twenty-one days in a row (that’s how long the experts say it takes to develop a habit).

Pick a night of the week in which the television will remain unplugged.

Go out for a non-fast-food dinner as a family.

Pray for your spouse and children every day.

Plan a vacation together.

Take a vacation together.

Read a chapter from the Bible every day until it becomes a habit.

Sit together as a family in church.

Surprise your teenager. Wash his car and fill up his gas tank.

Take an afternoon off from work; surprise your child by excusing him from school and taking him to a ball game.

Take a few hours one afternoon and go to the library as a family.

Take a walk as a family.

Write each member of your family a letter sharing why you value them.

Give your spouse a weekend getaway with a friend (same gender!) to a place of their choice.

Go camping as a family.

Go to bed early (one hour before your normal bedtime) every day for

              a week.

Take each of your children out to breakfast (individually) at least once a month for a year.

Turn down a promotion that would demand more time from your family than you can afford to give.

Religiously wear your seat belts.

Get a complete physical.

Exercise a little every day for a month.

Make sure you have adequate life insurance on both you and your spouse.

Write out information about finances, wills and important business information that your spouse can use to keep things under control in the event of your death.

Make sure your family car is safe (tires, brakes, etc.) and get it tuned up.

Replace the batteries in your smoke alarm.

Put a security system in your house.

Attend the parent/teacher meetings of each child as a couple.

Help your kids with their homework.

Watch the kids on Saturday while your wife goes shopping (but if a  friend calls, don’t say that you are babysitting

Explain to your spouse exactly what you do for a living.

Put together a picture puzzle.

Take time during the week to read a Bible story to your children and then discuss it with them.

Encourage each child to submit to you his most perplexing question, promise him that you’ll either answer it or discuss it with him.

Finish fixing something around the house.

Tell your kids how you and your spouse met.

Sit down and write your parents a letter thanking them for a specific thing they did for you.

Go on a shopping spree where you are absolutely committed to buying nothing.

Keep a prayer journal for a month. Keep track of the specific ways that God answered your needs.

Do some stargazing away from the city with your family. Help your children identify constellations and conclude the evening with prayer to the majestic God who created the heavens.

Treat your wife to a beauty makeover (facial, manicure, haircut, etc.).

             I hear they really like this.

Give the kids an alternative to watching Saturday morning cartoon.

Ask your children each day what they did at school (what they learned, who they ate lunch with, etc.).

After you make your next major family decision, take your child back through the process and teach him how to arrive at your decision."

Call your wife or husband from work just to see how they’re doing.

Compile a family tree and teach your children the history of their ancestors.

Walk through an old graveyard with your children.

Say no to at least one thing a day — even if it’s only a second piece of pie.

Write that letter to the network that broadcast the show you felt

was   inappropriate for prime-time viewing.

Turn off the lights and listen to a "praise" tape as you focus your thoughts on the Lord.

Write a note to your pastor praising him for something.

Take back all the books in your library that actually belong in someone else’s library.

Give irritating drivers the right to pull in front of you without

             Signaling and yelling at them.

Make every effort to not let the sun go down on your anger.

Accept legitimate criticism from your wife or a friend without reacting or defending yourself.

If your car has a Christian bumper sticker on it — drive like it.

Do a Bible study on the "wise man" and the "fool" in Proverbs and then apply what it takes to be wise to your life.Make a list of people who have hurt your feelings over the past year then check your list to see if you’ve forgiven them

.Make a decision to honor your parents, even if they made a career out of dishonoring you.Take your children to the dentist and doctor for your wife.

Play charades with your family, but limit subjects to memories from the past.

Do the dishes for your wife.

Schedule yourself a free day to stay home with your family.

Get involved in a family project that services or helps someone less fortunate.As a family, get involved in a recreational activity.

Send your wife flowers.

Spend an evening going through old pictures from family vacations.

Take a weekend once a year for you and your spouse to get awe and renew your relationship.

Praise your spouse and children — in their presence — to someone else.

Discuss a world or national problem, and ask your children for their opinion on it.

Wait up for your teenagers when they are out on dates.

Have a "quiet Saturday" (no television, no radio, no kidding). If your children are little, spend an hour playing with them, but  Let them determine the game.

Have your parents tell your children about life when they were young. Give up soap operas.

De-clutter your house.

If you have a habit of watching late night television, but have to be to work early every morning, change your habit.

Don’t accept unnecessary business breakfast appointments.

Write missionaries regularly.

Go through your closets and give everything that you haven’t worn in a year to a clothing relief organization.

Become a faithful and frequent visitor of your church’s library.

Become a monthly supporter of a Third World child.

Keep mementos, school projects, awards, etc. of each child in separate files. You’ll appreciate these when they’ve left the nest.

Read the biography of a missionary.

Give regularly and faithfully to conscientious church endeavors.

Place with your will a letter to each family member telling why you were glad you got to share life with him or her.

Go through your old records and tapes and discard any of them that might be a bad testimony to your children.

Furnish a room (or a corner of a room) with comfortable chairs and table,  declare it the “disagreement corner.” When conflicts arise, go to this corner and don’t leave until it’s resolved.

Give each child the freedom to pick his favorite dinner menu at least once a week.

Go over to a shut-in’s house as a family and completely clean it and get the lawn work done.

Call an old friend from your past, just to see how he or she is getting along.

Get a good friend to hold you accountable for a specific important need (Bible reading, prayer, spending time with   your family, losing a few pounds, etc.).

Establish a budget.

Go to a Christian marriage enrichment seminar


To make   your wife happy, try to appreciate her in small ways like with a kiss in the morning, and  say thank you when she does something for you.

You can also


A Passionate   husband does not just love when it comes to the physical aspect of married, but he is also excited about the small thing


He is there for his kids

Compassionate, loyal, honesty and dependable



Establish your own private home.

“A man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife, and they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24)KJV


God’s principle is that a married couple should move out of their parents’ homes and establish their own, even if finances require something modest, such as a one-room apartment. A husband and wife should decide this together, as one, and remain firm also if someone opposes. Many

Marriages would be improved if this principle carefully followed. Continue your courtship.

 “Above all things have fervent love for one another, for ‘love will cover a multitude of sins’ ” (1 Peter 4:8).KJV

“Her husband … praises her” (Proverbs 31:28).KJV

“She who is married cares … how she may please her husband” (1 Corinthians 7:34).KJV

“Be kindly affectionate to one another … in honor, giving preference to one another” (Romans 12:10)


Continue or revive your courtship into your married life. Successful marriages don’t just happen; they must be developed, don’t take one another for granted, or the resulting monotony could harm your marriage. Keeps your love for one another growing by expressing it to each other; otherwise, love might fade, and you could drift apart. Love and happiness are not found by seeking them for one self, but rather by giving them to others. So spend as much time as possible doing things together. Learn to greet each other with enthusiasm. Relax, visit, sightsee, and eat together. Don’t overlook the little courtesies, encouragements, and affectionate acts. Surprise each other with gifts or favors. Try to “out-love” each other. Don’t try to take more out of your marriage than you put into it. Lack of love is the biggest destroyer of marriage.

Suggests being unfaithful. Thoughts uncontrolled are like an automobile left in neutral on a steep hill; the result could be a disaster.

  • Never go to bed angry with one another.

“Do not let the sun go down on your wrath” (Ephesians 4:26).KJV

“Confess your trespasses to one another” (James 5:16).

“Forgetting those things which are behind” (Philippians 3:13).KJV

“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32).KJV


To remain angry over hurts and grievances—big or little—can be dangerous. Unless addressed promptly, even tiny problems can become set in your mind as convictions and can adversely affect your outlook on life. Is why God said to let your anger cool before going to bed? Be big enough to forgive and to say, “I’m sorry.” After all, no one is perfect, and you are both on the same team, so be gracious enough to admit a mistake when you make it. Besides, making up is an enjoyable experience, with unusual powers to draw marriage partners closer together. God suggests it! It works!

With Christ in your hearts and home, marriage will be successful.

With Christ in your hearts and home, marriage will be successful.

  • Keep Christ in the center of your home.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it” (Psalm 127:1).KJV

“In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths” (Proverbs 3:6).KJV

“And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:7).KJV

Answer his real the highest principle, because it’s the one that enables all the others. The vital ingredient of happiness in the home is not in diplomacy, strategy, or our effort to overcome problems, but rather in a union with Christ. Hearts filled with Christ’s love will not be far apart for long. With Christ in the home, marriage has a higher chance of being successful. Jesus can wash away bitterness and disappointment and restore love and happiness.

  • Pray together.

“Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak” (Matthew 26:41).KJV

“Pray for one another” (James 5:16).KJV

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally” (James 1:5)KJV


Pray with one another; it is beautiful activities that will help your marriage succeed beyond your wildest dreams. Kneel before God and ask him for true love, forgiveness, strength and wisdom for the solution to the problems. God will answer, you won’t be a cure for every fault, but God will have greater access to change your heart and actions.

  • I agree that divorce is not the answer.

“What God has joined together, let not man separate” (Matthew 19:6).KJV “Whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.” (Matthew 19:9) KJV.

 Unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife except for the fornication and shall marry another committed adultery and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

(Romans 7:2)KJV. For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he liveth; but if husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

Answer: The Bible says that the ties of marriage are to be unbreakable. Divorce is allowed only in cases of adultery. But even then, it is not demanded. Forgiveness is always better than divorce, even in the case of unfaithfulness.

When God ordained the first marriage in Eden, He designed it for life. Thus, marriage vows are among the most solemn and binding for a person to take on. But remember, God meant for marriage to elevate our lives and meet our needs in every way. Harboring thoughts of divorce will tend to destroy your marriage. Divorce is always destructive and is rarely a solution to the problem; instead, it usually creates more significant issues—financial troubles, grieving children, etc.

  • Keep the family circle closed tightly.

“You shall not commit adultery” (Exodus 20:14).

“The heart of her husband safely trusts her. … She does him good and not evil all the days of her life” (Proverbs 31:11, 12).KJV

“The Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously” (Malachi 2:14).KJV

“Keep you from the evil woman. Do not lust after her beauty in your heart, nor let her allure you with her eyelids. Can a man take fire to his bosom and his clothes not be burned?

 So is he who goes into his neighbor’s wife; whoever touches her shall not be innocent” (Proverbs 6:24, 25, 27, 29).KJV


Private family matters should never share with others outside your home, not even parents.

A close friend to the married couple who sympathize or listen to the couple complaints can be used by the devil to estrange the hearts of a husband and wife.

Solve your home problems privately. No one else, except a minister or a marriage counselor, should be involved. Always be truthful with each other, and never keep secrets. Avoid telling jokes at the expense of your spouse’s feelings, and vigorously defend each other. Adultery will always hurt you and everyone else in your family. God, who knows our mind, body,

and feelings, said, “You shall not commit adultery” (Exodus 20:14). KJV If flirtations have already begun, break them off immediately, or shadows could settle over your life that cannot be easily lifted.

10. God describes love to make it your daily goal to measure up.

“Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Corinthians 13:4–7)KJV


This Bible passage is one of God’s most significant descriptions of love. Read it again and again. Have you made these words a part of your marriage experience? True love is not mere sentimental impulse, but rather a divine principle that involves every aspect of your married life. With true love, your marriage stands a far greater chance for success; without it, marriage will likely fail quickly.

Remember that criticism and nagging destroy love.

“Husbands, love your wives and be not be bitter against them”

(Colossians 3:19)KJV

 “Better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and angry woman”

 (Proverbs 21:19).KJV

“A continual dropping in a very day and rainy day and a contentious woman are alike

.(Proverbs 27:15)KJV “Why beholdest thou the mote  that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest  not the beam that is in thine own eye? (Matthew 7:3)KJV

“Charity  suffereth  long and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself,  is not puffed up, (1 Corinthians 13:4)KJV


Stop criticizing, nagging, and finding fault in your partner. Your spouse might lack much, but criticism won’t help. Expecting perfection will bring bitterness to you and your spouse—Overlook faults and hunt for the right things. Don’t try to reform, control, or compel your partner—you will destroy love. Only God can change people. A sense of humor, a cheerful heart, kindness, patience, and affection will banish many of your marriage problems. Try to make your spouse happy by the good he/she will likely take care of itself. The secret of a successful marriage lies not in having the right partner, but in being the right partner.

  • Do not exaggerate anything; be temperate.
  • “Everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things
  • ” (1 Corinthians 9:25).KJV “Love does not seek its own [selfish advantage]”
  • (1 Corinthians 13:4, 5).KJV
  • “Whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God (1 Corinthians 10:31).KJV
  • “I discipline my body and bring it into subjection”(1 Corinthians 9:27).KJV
  • “If anyone will not work, neither shall he eat” (2 Thessalonians 3:10).
  • “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled” (Hebrews 13:4).KJV
  • “Do not let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts, and do not present your members as instruments of unrighteousness to sin” (Romans 6:12, 13).KJV


Overdoing will ruin your marriage. So will underdoing. Time with God, work, love, rest, exercise, play, meals, and social contact must be balanced in a marriage or something will snap. Too much work and a lack of rest, proper food, and exercise can

Bible also recommends a temperate sex life (1 Corinthians 7:3–6) KJV because degrading and intemperate sex acts can destroy love and respect for one another. Social contact with others is essential; real happiness w be in isolation. We must learn to laugh and enjoy wholesome, good times. Been severe at  times is dangerous. Overdoing or underdoing in anything weakens the mind, body, conscience, and the ability to love and respect one another. Don’t let intemperance damage your marriage.

  • Respect your spouse's rights and privacy.

Love suffers long and is kind; Love does not envy does not behave rudely, does not seek its own [in selfishness] … does not rejoice in iniquity … believes all things, hopes all things, endures all thing

 (1 Corinthians 13:4–7)KJV

 Affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another

(Romans 12:10)KJV

Answer:   Each spouse has a God-given right to particular personal privacy. Do not tamper with spouse wallets or purses, personal email, and other private property unless given permission. The right to privacy and quietude when preoccupied should be respected.  Marriage partners do not own each other and should never try to force personality changes. Only God can make such changes. Confidence and trust in one another is essential for happiness,

Carelessness in these seemingly small matters has caused division in countless homes.

14. Be clean, modest, orderly, and dutiful.

“In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel” (1 Timothy 2:9).KJV

“Let all things be done decently and in order.”

(1 Corinthians 14:40).KJV

But  if any provide not for his own and especially for those of his own; house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel 

(1 Timothy 5:8)KJV

“Do not become sluggish [lazy]” (Hebrews 6:12)KJV


Laziness and disorder can be used by the devil to destroy your respect and affection for one another and, thus, harm your marriage. Modest attire and clean, well-groomed bodies are essential for both husband and wife. Both partners should take care to create a home environment that is clean and orderly, as this will bring peace and calmness. A lazy, shiftless spouse who does not contribute to the household is a disadvantage to the family and is displeasing to God. Everything done for one another should be with care and respect.

  • Determine to speak softly and kindly.

“A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1)KJV

“Live joyfully with the wife whom you love” (Ecclesiastes 9:9)KJV

“When I became a man, I put away childish things” (1 Corinthians 13:11)KJV

Answer:   Always speak softly and kindly to your spouse—even in disputes. Decisions made when angry, tired, or discouraged are unreliable anyway, so it’s best to relax and let anger cool before speaking. And when you do speak, let it always be quietly and lovingly. Harsh, angry words can crush your spouse’s desire to please you.

  • Be reasonable in money matters.

“Love does not envy [is not possessive] … does not behave rudely, does not seek its own [selfish advantage]” (1 Corinthians 13:4, 5).

“God loves a cheerful giver” (2 Corinthians 9:7).KJV

Answer: Household income should be shared in a marriage, with each partner having the right to spend a particular portion as desired and according to the family budget. Separate bank accounts tend to remove the opportunity to deepen trust, which is vital for a healthy marriage. Money management is a team effort. Both should be involved, but one should take ultimate responsibility. Personal abilities and preferences should determine money management roles.

Talk things over freely with one another.

“Love  suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up” (1 Corinthians 13:4).

“He who disdains instruction despises his own soul” (Proverbs 15:32).KJV

“Do you see a man wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him” (Proverbs 26:12).

Answer:   Few things will strengthen your marriage more than open discussions on major decisions. Changing a job, purchasing something expensive, and other life decisions should involve both husband and wife—and differing opinions should be respected. Talking things over together will avoid many blunders that could greatly weaken your marriage. If, after much discussion and earnest prayer, opinions still differ, the wife should submit to her husband’s decision, which should be motivated by his deep love for his wife and his responsibility for her well-being. See Ephesians 5:22–25.KJV

  • Do you want your marriage to reflect God’s unselfish, committed, and joyful love for you?




Genesis 2:24: KJV

“Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." ... He who loves his wife loves himself

Matthew 19:4-6 ESV / 61

He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let not man separate.”



It is an act of two men having sexual intercourse together.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV / 30

Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the

Sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

 Genesis 19:1-38 ESV / 30

The two angels came to Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gate of Sodom. When Lot saw them, he rose to meet them and bowed himself with his face to the earth and said, My lords, please turn aside to your servant's house and spend the night and wash your feet. Then you may rise early and go on your way. They said, “No, we will spend the night in the town square.” But he pressed them strongly, so they turned aside to him and entered his house. And he made them a feast and baked unleavened bread, and they ate. But before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both young and old, all the people to the last man, surrounded the house. And they called to Lot, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us, that we may know them.

 If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.

 Leviticus 18:22 ESV / 28

You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination

 Since the creation of the world, human has been a violator of Gods law.

The atrocity began when Eve fell in love with a snake, which is called bestiality. I.e., human to animal

 God created marriage to be  long lasting  institute, He created marriage and make it admiring,

Is unethical and unlawful to sell a product that is not certified or approved by the government,  so it is unscriptural to televised GOD products in which you are not accredited agent from the school authority.

The holy  ghost is a {HOD} Head of Department, in this institution If the syllabus is not the hand, you are unaccredited agent roaming around looking for whom to devour.

1peter5.8 KJV

Be of sober, be vigilant because of your It adversary the devil as a roaring lion walketh about seeking whom he may devour.

Gods products were not to ask the wisdom of people [TALK SHOW] on how to modernizes or rebrand it, But to seek God direction from HER

Note that you can’t rebrand Gods work correctly, you only follow the instruction to arrive at modernize and perfect life.

Jeremiah 6.13KJV

For from the smallest of them to the greatest of them, [everyone] makes a profit for unlawful gain. And from the prophet to the priest, everyone practiced deceit.

 That’s why many talk show hosts married couples end up with divorce and chaos at home. The Holy Spirit is speaking.

To someone here, before you start that   talk show, seek God direction.


 A marriage counselor is  those who are set aside by the church committee board to have oversight in a couple who are preparing for marriage [church Wedding].

I recalled a brother scenario who was preparing for church wedding during the six-month probation preparatory class; the intended couple was interviewed.

And the elaborated question was ask

Counselor asked = Have you known yourself before. I mean bed un-defiled

Intended Couple Answer =Yes

The counselor said since you have sinned against God, not them.

You are at this moment, penalizes, and your marriage canceled

And the couple stops attaining the church, who cares. Over the years, I kept on pondering on this case is that the right way to handle the issue? They were many intending couples who had wrong the ammunition of God, i.e., bed defiled but refused to speak the truth.

The various vices we recorded today, is out of frustration of broken home and attitude of so many people in the church called leaders.

Please am appealing to all church marriage committee leaders to temper justices with mercy.

Does the blood of Jesus till cleanse?

2Corinthian 5.17 KJV

If any man is in Christ, he is a new creature, and the old thing is have passed away behold all things become new.

Confessions bring any sinner under the saving blood of Jesus.

Roman 3.23KJV

For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God

What value and lesson does this counselor add to the couple who have fallen in love with each other?


Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.

God had all the power to replace Eve to Adam after the fall of man.

But our God respect his word and our choice

It is of a necessity that every counselor must be equipped with adequate HER to impact the body of Christ

John7.25-39 KJV

Out of His belly shall flow rivers of living water.”

I pray as you yield to the word of God, the holy ghost will open your deep understanding of his concepts in Jesus almighty Name.


God’s Word



God’s word is a foundation for a happy marriage.


It an essential aspect of marriage, but most marriage seminars shy away from hitting the nail on the head? Some felt speaking about it, will make them sound vodka, come to think of it. How about the creator of this memorial food called sex.

Sex plays one of the cardinal points in keeping a home at peace and under control of man.

Listen, you like it or not

Is what keeps every woman happy without the unnecessary napping at home? With good love making you secure the totality of your man and woman hearts.

This moment is not a moment to do religious or holiness; it is a call to biological knowledge [show working].



Song of Solomon1.13-14

The fig tree putteth forth her green figs, and the vines with the tender grape give a pleasant smell. Arise. My love, my fair one, and come away.

O my dove, that art in the clefts of the rock, in the secret places of the stairs, let me see thy countenance, let me hear thy voice, for sweet is thy voice, and thy face is comely. Solomon the wises king putting the words into practices

Retrospect your years where you were still young, what was toasting skill. Every woman and man desire caring and pampering, though the marriage is 20years old, your partner still desires those sweet words and play. Kind words and play give birth to foul play


Is a starting key to a well-satisfied sex life?

Please don’t rush your partner is your spouse; you didn’t steal it


I} start with an outstanding old story of how you satisfied her sexually some time ago.

Ii} create in him /her mind the atmosphere of giving her a double dose of it today.


Begin by caressing her/him

Solomon 8.3


the left hand should be under my head, and his right hand should embrace me


Her/him the neck region, ear, forehead and lips

Solomon 1.2

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth, for thy love is better than wine

 3 Make advancement by touching her hair, taking out pimple from his/her face

Solomon 1.10

Thy cheeks are comely with rows of jewels, thy neck with chains of gold

Roll your hand through her breast and grab it gentling

Solomon 4.5

 Thy two breasts are like two young roes that  are twins, which feed among the lilies

5 Gentling help her to undress gradually from the back and kiss the top of the breast

While undressing her say romantic words to her

Solomon 4.1,3

Behold thou art fair, my love, behold, thou art fair, thou hast doves eye within thy locks. Thy hair is as a flock of goat that appears from mount Gilead.

Thy lips are like a thread of scarlet, and thy speech is comely. Thy temples are like a piece of a pomegranate within thy locks.

7 Ran your tongue through he/her lips to the navel

 Solomon 4.11

Thy lips, o my spouse drop as the honeycomb, honey, and milk are under thy tongue and the smell of thy

garments are like the smell of Lebanon.

8 Use your finger through he/her gentling

Solomon 5.5

I rose up

to open to my beloved, and my hands dropped with myrrh, and my fingers with sweet smelling myrrh, upon the handles of the lock.

9. Do what he/she always wanted during

this time

10 Gentle penetrate in and out

for a few minute make her/him hungry for it


11 Then do another syllabus as please you both


Understand that sex is not food is a pleasure so you both must set out time for it.

Understand that duty can keep him/her away some time.

Proverbs 14.1 KJV

Every wise woman buildeth her house. But the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

No man/woman will run away from his/her home when understanding is in place

though  chaos may be beaming at home, good understanding secure peace.

Pleasant words win many friends, and courteous manners make acquaintance easy. Virtue woman turns their husband to a friend by use of the polite term.

Ecclesiastes 6.5

Moreover, he hath not seen the sun, nor known anything: this hath more rest than the other.

The smooth sea does not make a good sailor, but turbulent sea makes a good sailor.

Common Marine Terms


Don’t misquote my word by beating spouse to coma or destroy home appliance. It beyond disagreement is demonic programming; misunderstanding will come because when two unpaired wire is not parallel, the needs to be paired to work correctly, so is every marriage.

A man should able to control his temper; woman mouth is the missal of mass destruction; if you set her on fire, she will launch herself from you and to your kindred.

Don’t marry the person you think you can live without, marry only the individual you think you can’t live without

Pst Sam Adeyemi

If  you  regard her as a den gun and you  provoke her to anger, then you will know she can  metamorphosis herself into missal.



Through prayers

Study together

Observed family fasting

Engage her in church activities

Give her time to share the word in the family devotion

Visit the parent of  both party with a gift

Having family Pastor

Create the atmosphere of letting   her tell you, you’re wrong

We are the light of the world; the word of God applied, helps the believer to have dominion over darkness and in every phase of life and business.

Every Godly marriage generates light.

I see the light of God beckoning on your marriage in Jesus' Name. Amen

Until you experience misunderstand, you both will not have the right standing and peaceful home.











                                                                                           CHAPTER TWO

                                                                                      WISDOM FOR BUSINESS


usiness means exchange of goods and commodities for money.

Wisdom for business is a complete application  of  kingdom covenant principle to stand out.


Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that the storehouse at in mine house and prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it

Wow, what an open  cheque from our father, this is clause word PROVE ME now, proves him  now and  see.

 To be high flyer in any sector of career must have possessed a secret to his/her success.



The secret is a hidden skill or intellect which put you above others in the path   to your   glorious life

Proverbs 18. 16

A man's gift maketh room for him and  bringeth him before great men.

Paying tithe is a skill and a secret.



CHRISTIAN                        WORLD PEOPLE

Covenant principle           Common Sense

Tithe                                          Time conscious

Kingdom style                           innovations

Diligent                                     Politeness           

Giving to Pastor                     giving to the parent

Soul-winning                           appreciating your patronage

Praying for the loss        helping the orphanage

HER  is a covenant skill to whom that desire to be high flyers in business and career.


braham, our covenant father who took heed to practiced HER, became a celebrity and generational blessing

He ventures into the trading business, and God bless him. By HER, you enthroned in any field of endeavor.

In the days of Abraham, He traded with sheep and herds, silver, and gold that was the lucrative business then.

So look around you, what’s your environment needs most, but before you start any business, ask God for direction. Let’s solve the kingdom equation

Proverbs 11.24

Them is that scattereth and yet increaseth, and there is that withholdeth more than is meet but tendeth to poverty.

 We know every man in his natural HER believes that accumulation of addition is what will produce more addition.

While kingdom mathematics principle subtraction is what gives you addition, until you adopt the kingdom mathematic principle, you can’t never arrive at your full glorification. Every beverage manufacturer uses preservatives to preserve their products; God expects us to use giving and other kingdom applications to protect our riches.

John 3.16

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in him might be saved

Our father, the inventor of this equation, gave his son until you give; you are not a candidate for enthronement.

                                                                                CHAPTER THREE

                                                                         WISDOM FOR GOOD HEALTH


ood health is applying the word of God in your challenge to secure sickness free life. Inversely, it doesn't mean the disease will not come.

Your reaction and attitude toward It are what will guarantee your victory in future occurrence. You will never understand the importance of good health until you visit the hospital emergence ward.

 I was opportune to visit the intensive care unit (ICU) to my amazement; many manners of sickness were battered around. But they were this man who captured my attention so much. He walks with a catheter attached to his private part.

Is kit which is used by the doctors to support a patient urinary tract who is suffering from prostate cancer disease?

Imagine yourself, not able to urinate properly, A pipe has to be inserted into your urinal tract for you to have a free  flow of urine, is very painful and incontinence

 You imagine why God would allow sickness to afflict his people.

Gods plan for us, is to live health and sickness free life But Adam corrupted the program in the Garden of Eden, But the good news is, God has made provision for our healing that why he sent his son Jesus to die for us

John 3.16

For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.

Every affliction have expiring date once you confess your sin the blood of Jesus began to atone for your sin,

Sin will sink you.

Bishop David Oyedepo

Peradventure, you have fallen short; Jesus is knocking on the door of your heart. If you open up to me, I will make you heal again.

Revelation 3.20

Behold I stand at the door and knock, if any man hears my voice and open the door, I will come into him and will sup with him and he with me.

Confession is what triggers mercy, Remember a story of a blind man at the beautiful gate who cried out for mercy, thou son of David have tolerance.


Father in the Name of Jesus, your son, let the prayer of faith save the sick.

James 5.14-15

Is any among you afflicted let him call for the elders of the church and let them pray over him

Anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord

 And the prayer of faith shall save the sick and the Lord raise him up; and if he has committed sins, they shall be forgiven him.

The authority has been giving to the church until the elder realizes their place in a church; they can’t manifest the assignment giving them by God.

Psalm 107.20

He sent his word and healed them and delivered them from their destruction.


Behold, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health even as thy soul prospereth.

The depth of HER receive by you is what will produce a result.

The word of God is a pure capsule that can restore healing to all our affliction.

But it will only require verb word call Faith to activate it. Faith is spiritual engines that convert the spoken word to healing virtue. Until your faith is intact, you can’t access the throne of mercy.

Hebrews 11.6

And without faith, it is impossible to please God

Show me a man who is faith loaded, and I will tell you a man who can move a mountain

So much salute the faith of these two coupled.No mountain can stand you if your faith is applied at the right time. 

I recalled Christian broadcasting network (CBN).

Ifeanyi and Aimee, who was in effected with (H.I.V) Human immune virus during their church wedding preparation. The condition was aggravated; they had no other option than to apply HER by seeking the throne of mercy, and the big mountain rolls away.

Today they are happily married with kids, Jesus is never too late to heal until you recognize his healing power

Peradventure, as you are reading this book, and

You on any kind of medication, I know that Jesus will heal you in almighty Name of Jesus.

All the invention and technologies today is invented by man

James 1.7

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above and cometh down from the father of light, with whom is no variableness either shadows of turning


A man can receive nothing except the given him from heaven

Taking medication tablet and injection is not a sin, but is a sin when you

Put your trust in your doctor

 Jeremiah 17.5

Thus saith the word, cursed be the man that trusteth in man and maketh flesh his arm and whose heart departeth from the Lord.

Remember, God gave man wisdom to invent you all glory shall go to God

 Same fellow who condemned the believer who is talking tablet for their healing, but they still go for specialist medical check-up

 Ezekiel 47.12

And by the river upon the bank thereof on this site and on that side shall grow all trees for meat, whose leaf shall fade neither shall the fruit thereof be consumed it shall the fruit thereof be according to his months because sanctuary and the fruit thereof shall be for meat and the leaf thereof for medicine

 Some foe regards scientist and doctor as a demon

I’m here to let you know that every knowledge cometh from the father of a good thing.

Is that same scientist who uses a leaf to make beverage cream, toothpaste, and noodle for consumption?

 Psalm 24.1

The earth is the Lords and the fullness thereof, the world and they that dwell therein.


In the beginning, was the word and the word was with God, and the name was God


Your memories, Jesus did not die for the believer only

 For God so loved the world

At his resurrection, he restored wisdom and knowledge to humankind.

 Don’t die of ignorant; if your faith can’t bring miracle to you, seek medication and get heal, then return to church altar and give testimony.

Remember the original plan of God was sickness free life, But the fall of Adam gave access to disease and affliction,

Jesus came so that we may not die in that affliction, He shared his blood for us, until you continued to take cover under saving blood of Jesus, and you can’t be free torment the devil.

Pleasure sharing Gods word with you.

Please no man has fully utilizes the wisdom of God, at every point of challenge enquirer God for his wisdom.   Watching out for another episode of this book (BIBLICAL WISDOM)